One of the biggest deal if not the biggest in any romantic relationship is lovemaking,not just any lovemaking but one that is absolutely memorable and unforgettable. If you are a man and you cannot take your woman to heaven then this is for you.
Basically, it all starts with anticipation. Yes, the feeling of being on your toes after mentally accepting the fact that something significant is about to go down. Little to no people know that consciously thinking about the sex about to transpire excites the mind thus building the momentum for a great sex.
Picture this, you go out on a date with a guy after literally planning every single thing out down to the kisses, and hugs. You tend to form a favourable opinion about the date even before it's started. This gets you 'fantasising' about the possibilities so when it does happen, you get the most out of it.
Having genuine feelings for each other is like a fuel that ignites even the most dormant passions. Compare sex with someone you actively like and pursue to one with a random stranger. The correlation would obviously point in the favor of someone you share a more intimate connection with than the other party. That doesn’t go to say that sex with a stranger basically cannot be a great sex with multiple orgasms because you’d be surprised the sorts of pleasure you’d get from what I’d call a ‘wild sexual encounter’.
Again, Sexologists recommend focusing on the sense of touch which allows you to feel your way around your partner and explore. Tips and tricks include closing your eyes or turning off the lights, sex blindfolded and such other crazy ideas. On the off chance the appearance of your sexual partner puts you off, these methods help you forget about appearance.
As a bonus for guys;
Guys, its not always about Penetration! This falls back to my earlier point about feelings and affections, insider information. Most women like it when a partner rhythmically massages their vulva with his whole hand, while keeping constant eye contact, kisses, and showering them with praises and words of adoration. Whether a man is a newbie or an expert doesn’t matter as long actions which stimulates the pleasure principle is activated and trust me, it can lead some of the most incredible orga*sms.