I can’t remember the last time my mother raised her hand on me, not even my elderly siblings. But this guy I call my boyfriend keeps slapping me every night and day. I don’t know who taught him that hitting, not even hitting, slapping a lady’s b*tt during intimacy will boost her desire. But I receive countless slaps and pulls each time we’re in the bedroom. I decided to hit back the next time he tries it.
Though painful, I endured the first slap on my b*tt. The second one killed my wild mood but I let go. Before he could plant the third on my butt, I turned and gave him a resounding slap on his face. Funny enough, my boyfriend couldn’t hold the pain and he hit back. Our love making turned into a battle zone. Beloved, that was how my sweet relationship came to an end.
When it comes to bedroom game, most of us know about the obvious pleasure zones. But there are many other areas of the body that can be involved outside of those few key spots. Fortunately, like my ex, some guys identify these areas but then, they don’t know how to touch them. Before your next bedroom game turns bloody like mine, learn how to play with the erogenous parts of your partner and stop inflicting pains on them in the name of romance.
Just think about how nice it feels when someone plays with your hair. The scalp is one area that is mostly left out during intimacy. Run your fingernails through your partner’s hair and along their scalp. The hair is not supposed to be pulled. Sometimes your partner screams not out of pleasure but pain of pulling their hair hard. Run your hands through the scalp down to the back of the neck. Doing this right can stimulate other hot spot areas.
Your partner’s ears are very sensitive. That is why you should be gentle when stimulating the ears. You may trace the outside of the ear. You may nibble the earlobes but don’t bite or spit inside.You might also whisper or soft blow to get goosebumps feeling. It’s sad that some guys aggressively suck their partners ears to the point of biting. Who does that?
Due to the position of this area close to the genitals, it is sexually sensitive to touch.
Use your tongue and fingertips to trace circles around the navel and tease your way down and all around the stomach. To make it more interesting and pleasurable, drop some ice on it and lick it.
Back of the knees
This is another often neglected area that’s incredibly sensitive to any kind of touch. For some people, it’s even ticklish. Use your mouth and tongue there before working your way up or down the leg. Until you experience, you will not know what you’re missing out.
Bottom of the feet
Some people can’t help but laugh whenever they are washing the bottom of their feet. Now imagine the sensation when someone else is rubbing it. Rub and massage the bottom of the feet of your partner. Pressure points in the bottom of the feet can increase blood flow and enhance feelings of arousal when manipulated just right.
The inside of the thighs is potentially a pleasure-inducing part since the skin there is very sensitive. Some people can be ticklish but the reaction from your partner’s nibbles, nips and licks will be that much intense. Your tongue can place light kisses on the thighs while your hand traces up and down.
Make your bedroom game more fun. If you are still at the point where the only areas you play with are the genitals, the nipples and lips, then I’m sorry to say you are the only one still there. We have left there long ago. We have identified hidden hot spots and are having great fun.