Loving someone in a relationship is full commitment. You should devote your time, mind, body, and everything when you have found love in a relationship. Why must you cheat on your partner when you claim to love them? Is your partner not enough for you? Is cheating even necessary in a relationship where love can be found? Cheating in a relationship comes in different forms. This afternoon, I will be narrating to my lovely and ardent readers what happened and transpired between Dorcas and her partner, when they were together.
Dorcas and her partner Andy met in high school. Their first meeting was at the school library because they were both language students. They became best of friends after Dorcas accidentally hit Andy’s head with her elbow when she was removing a book from the shelves. She said sorry and introduced herself to Andy, he also accepted her apology and gave her his details. They got to know that they were classmates after the introduction section. The two became closer afterward because they liked each other. They would go for lectures together, eat together, study together, and attend school gatherings together. They became attracted to each other because they were always together. Andy in his early 20s and Dorcas being a teenager both understood their feelings and entered a love relationship. It was clearly visible to everyone that the love they shared together was mutual.
Their bond was growing so fast that they became sexually attracted to each other and made many promises to themselves. This is not Andy’s first time in a relationship so he mostly makes the first move in anything that has to do with the growth of the relationship. Dorcas being the newbie because she has never dated before and this was her first relationship, she would back Andy in everything he does and follows his instructions very closely. Andy figured out that his partner is naive and she loves him beyond measure so he started using that to his advantage. The lovers jumped exeat one Saturday evening and spent the night in a hotel room. A few weeks later, Dorcas tested positive after running a blood pregnancy test. Doom had befallen the lovers because Dorcas has strict parents who would not take it easy on her should they learn that she is pregnant. Fear imprisoned the lovers which made them take a hasty step to terminate the pregnancy. Andy and Dorcas underwent an illegal abortion which costs Dorcas her womb. They later found out that Dorcas was incapable of giving birth due to the challenges she faced when aborting the pregnancy.
Andy promised Dorcas heaven on earth so at this point, he cannot back off. The sad news was heartbreaking and became a headache for the two but the damage had already been done. Andy tried to comfort his grieving girlfriend by making yet another empty promise which he knew he was never going to fulfill. Andy promised that he will marry Dorcas since they both brought this upon themselves. He further said, giving birth is not a big deal after all because they could adopt a child anytime they were ready to have children. Dorcas seemed convinced by the empty promises her boyfriend made to her.
After 3 years of studying in high school, they both graduated and were waiting for their final results. The results came out after some months and unfortunately, Dorcas had to resit but Andy passed and gained admission to the University. Andy came again with his words of encouragement. He told Dorcas not to worry because he will be waiting for her at the University. As naive as she was, she believed every word said by her lover. Dorcas registered for the final exams again whilst Andy prepared for his University education. One year later when she finally passed her final year exams, she joined Andy at the university only to find a total stranger in the person of her boyfriend. Andy found himself a younger-looking lady, very beautiful and sexy, and above all fertile as a life partner. Dorcas broke down completely because she did not know how to fix herself. Andy cheated on her greatly. They both brought this upon themselves but Andy left her in the dark to deal with the mess alone. Is such a partner worth forgiveness? Be smart when choosing a partner for yourself. Life is all about making choices so make the smart and right choice every time.
Source : Mediaghananews.com
