I listen to others narrate how a lady one way or the other broke their heart in the worse ways ever. I never imagined myself sharing a broken heart story because I thought with the kind of lady I have, broken heart is only a myth. Little did I know that it could be a reality.
I loved Naa so much that I would do anything for her but one question I never asked myself was whether she also loved me like I did and was ready to sacrifice for me. I met Naa a day before I got my job in an Auto Mechanics Company. I have been searching for a job for a very long time now but I got a job a day after I met Naa. I soon started thinking she could be the reason and thought of her as a blessing in my life. I went ahead and proposed love to her, I was glad when she agreed to be with me as a life partner.
Naa had nothing doing to earn her a living as at the time I met her. She finished her nursing course not long before I met her so she had no job. I wasn’t bothered by that fact at all because I knew I loved her unconditionally and was willing to accept every detail about her. During our 3 years of courtship, Naa got pregnant with our baby boy. I loved her and wanted to build my world with her so I again proposed marriage to her, I felt nothing more than great happiness when she agreed to be my wife. Naa wanted to learn a handiwork so she could support me financially as we are about to have our first child. I thought of it as a great idea so I asked if she had something of her own interest in mind and she said she wants to do catering (pastries). So, I put Naa in a catering school so she could learn how to make pastries. I bought her an oven because I knew she will need it to do the baking to sell. In less than a month she quit learning the job without any valid reason.
With her losing interest in the job, we let that chapter go and proceeded with the wedding plans. I introduced my would-be wife to my family and I was disappointed in them, they didn’t really like the woman so my parents told me not to marry her and that if she is the woman I choose to be with then they won’t attend my wedding. I just couldn’t disappoint Naa so I went on with the marriage. Two years after she gave birth to our son, we held a beautiful marriage ceremony. My parents indeed did not show up at my wedding the reason being that Naa is not a good woman for me. Just a week after our wedding I, unfortunately, lost my job. What a sad ending it will be for me if Naa turns out not to be a blessing in my life after all. I was wondering. A month later, after I lost my job she was posted by the government to a community hospital in the Volta region. What great news it was, we quickly prepared to relocate to the Volta region so we could start afresh.
We finally settled in the Volta Region after three months of working at the hospital, my wife made some money which we used to meet all our needs in the house. I never stopped searching for a job though but Naa stopped caring, the love and affection she felt for me from the beginning changed because I did not have a job to do my manly duties at home. It all started when her mother paid us a visit, she filled my wife’s head with a lot of stuff that made her see me as a useless man. They would cook and decide not to serve me because I had no contribution to the meal that was cooked. At this point I had no one to turn to, I was so helpless because I didn’t listen to my parents advise. I didn’t lose hope because I know God is going to make a way for me. Even though she broke my heart terribly, I still look up to God to change her because I’m not willing to let her go.
Source : Mediaghananews.com
