What does your partner needs the most in your relationship, is it love or trust?. Well, find out at the end of this article and correct yourself.
I bet you have already read other articles on love and trust. But, have you been able to differentiate between the two yet? Do not confuse yourself by saying ”If you love someone, you tend to trust them automatically and vice versa”. For a relationship to grow and stand firm, you need both love and trust. This is not to say that they are same things for you can love someone and not trust them and you can also trust someone when you do not love them. Why, do you doubt me? You can tell that you love your partner but you find it difficult to trust him due to some personal reasons. Same way you can trust someone and beat your chest to say ”this person can never let me down” but, you just do not feel that love for the person.
Before you say you love someone, then you love everything about them. If not then I am sorry to say it is not love but pleasure.
Love is commitment, being there for someone when they need you is what a relationship needs. Love is being able to accept someone wholeheartedly despite knowing their flaws. A strong feeling of affection and sexual attraction for someone is called love.
When you love someone or when you fall in love in a relationship, learn to be open so that you gain your partners trust. Trusting someone is as important as loving someone. Secrecy doesn’t build trust in a relationship.
To trust someone in a relationship means that you think you can rely on them in all matters.
You have full confidence in them that they will never let you down, you feel safe with them emotionally and physically. Both you and your partner play a role when it comes to building trust in your relationship. If you don’t trust a person, how can you truly love them?
Trust precedes love. Trust is gained through actions. Your actions speak for you. Trust is the foundation of love
Unlike love, trust is not blind. You can tell clearly if a person trusts you or not and also if a person is worth trusting or not.
They say love is beautiful, love is blind, love is wicked, love is a great feeling, love is not enough, and a whole lot but one thing you must always remember is that, a relationship can never survive when there is lack of trust and understanding.
Building trust in a relationship takes hard work and commitment. Trust demands listening and communication.
Once trust is built, it should be maintained because when it is broken, it becomes harder to put the pieces back together.
Source : Mediaghananews.com
